When my husband and I opened our chiropractic office in 2017, life was full—beautifully full, but undeniably overwhelming. Our firstborn son, Isaiah, was just four months old. We were learning how to be parents, navigating sleepless nights, and still expected to show up for work each morning with energy and purpose. On top of that, we had moved to Salem when Isaiah was only nine days old. A new town, a new business, and a newborn baby were more than enough to stretch us.
Isaiah went to work with us, and when we went home, work followed us there. There was no clear separation between business and family life. We were building something we believed in, but we were also exhausted—physically, mentally, and emotionally.
Fast forward several years, and our family has grown. We now have four beautiful sons, and we’ve been blessed with the opportunity to purchase a larger facility for our practice. Life still feels full, but the greatest growth hasn’t just been in square footage or family size—it has been in learning how to juggle the many hats we wear.
One of the most impactful decisions we’ve made is choosing not to work at home. Home is where we are a family. Our boys deserve our attention, presence, and energy. That boundary didn’t come naturally—it required intentionality. But we’ve learned that to fully live out the calling the Lord has placed on our lives, every area must be stewarded with purpose.
Over the years, many people have asked me about being a stay-at-home mom. And while I deeply love our boys, I also know that for me to be the best mom I can be, I must work. Developing the massage school and contributing to our family’s provision allows me to operate in the gifts God has given me. That fulfillment pours back into how I love and care for my children.
Because I am a working mom, I am intentional about the quality of time I have with my boys. When I’m with them, I’m with them. If they want to play dinosaurs, then mommy becomes a dinosaur. If they want to kick a soccer ball, I’m right there running and playing alongside them. Presence matters more than perfection.
Juggling many roles isn’t a bad thing when time is intentional and quality is never compromised. I love my family, and I love the work I’ve been called to do. We are all wired differently, and I can’t imagine my life looking any other way.
My hope is that my husband and our boys are proud—not just of what I do, but of how I live. Above all, I pray that the life I am living aligns with God’s will and serves His kingdom well.
